We all must have heard of a familiar quote which says: “There is no place like Home”
It is because of the love we receive from our loved ones, especially our parents, who will stand for us against all odds, even when the world rejects us.
What can equal a mother's love says the world and it is true and that is the very reason Jesus also gave us His Mother so that we could run to her in times of need to be loved, protected, nurtured and much more, etc.
Many Senior Priests/friars said that they don’t go home for a long vacation anymore and upon asking why? They said, “It no longer has that true love of mum and dad in them anymore, and they wished they were still alive”.
Now why am I talking about this love which holds us so dear? It is because we postulant brothers experienced one similar to that when we were invited to the Pasathotam at Dindigul for the inauguration of the Paasam Hospice, a place where the ones rejected by society, the ones who are looked down upon because they are infected by HIV-AIDS, are given dignity and sheltered, are loved and taken care of.
We all the fourteen of us postulants, who along with our postulant Master Fr. Arvind Kerketta OFM, started our journey, in response to the invite, on the 8th of November 2022 from our formation house in Madurai to Pasathotam, Dindigal, by local public transport. After 3 hours of journey, we reached Dindigal and were welcomed warmly and picked up by Fr. Peter Saleth OFM and Fr. Felix Vijay OFM who took us to Pasathotam and explained to us about that place. Later, we quickly settled in our designated stay rooms, changed our clothes, had lunch and got ready to work. We started working towards getting things clean and getting the place ready for the next day’s inauguration. It was a rainy day but nothing could stop us. We only had one thing in our minds: that it is a blessing to love someone more than to be loved, and we wanted the best for the ones for whom it was built for. The spirit of that place, Paasam, had won us over and we worked until late evening and satisfied, and we settled down for the night.
The next day was bright with all the guests and religious from various congregations joining us for the opening ceremony and Fr. Praveen D’Souza, Minister Provincial OFM graced it in the presence of all and we also were blessed by the presence of the 14 friars. We had the Holy Eucharistic Celebration at the new place at around 9:30 AM and in the Mass we learnt that it was a challenging journey to get this hospice from an idea to an actual one. Many friars, benefactors and people who worked for it were acknowledged and prayed for.
Our benefactors from Germany from the Asha Trust, i.e., Mr. Hans Schwarz and Mrs. Maris Woste were also present among us and were acknowledged and prayed for too.
Many friars i.e., Fr Arun Junes, Fr. Vijay Amrit Raj, Fr. Sagayadas, Fr Xavier Durairaj, Fr. Rajshekar Gopu, Fr. Felix Vijay, Fr. Peter Saleth, Fr. Arok Sundar, Fr. Eugene, Fr. Steven was all very instrumental in having this project completed and having that place stand true to its name.
We had the Minister of Co-operation of Tamil Nadu, Mr. I Periyasamy who inaugurated the place and, in his speech, he assured us full support and love, which was nothing less than tasting sweet honey as we found favour with man after God.
An inauguration and no cultural programme, that’s not possible. Well, our brothers, the local client kids and the local postulant sisters from the order of St Charles Borromeo later lit the place with happiness and performed some amazing cultural dances and skits. It all ended on a high note with hearts filled with joy and an assured future.
After all the hard work and an amazing day, tasty food was a must and so was it. Our own dear friars served us lovingly and we had a sumptuous meal. Now with a happy heart and a blessing tongue and wonderful memories, we returned to Madurai Friary, the postulancy house safely.
Date |
Name of the Friars |
Events |
Year |
01 |
Jose Palimattom Vincent Soosai Fabianus Toppo Bryan Carneiro Bhaskar Reddy Michael Anand |
Solemn Vows Solemn Vows Entry Solemn Vows Solemn Vows Solemn Vows |
1996 1996 1999 2002 2002 2002 |
02 |
Leos Ekka Vinoth Robin + Denis Boers Basil Tirkey Vinod Kujur Francis Arokiasamy M. Thumma Ranjith Kumar Reddy |
Birth Birth Home Solemn Vows Solemn Vows Solemn Vows Solemn Vows |
1963 1985 1997 2013 2013 2013 2013 |
03 |
Fabianus Toppo + Theodore Caine Ankit Kumar Baghel |
Birth Home Birth |
1978 1986 1996 |
04 |
Dharmodaya Ashram - Bellary |
Foundation |
1995 |
06 |
Alphonse Moras |
Birth |
1950 |
07 |
Sleeva Reddy Tojy M. |
Solemn Vows Solemn Vows |
1998 1998 |
08 |
Joy Valooran Dominic C.J. Balthazar Pinto Bala Marneni Tony D’ Souza |
Birth Solemn Vows Solemn Vows Solemn Vows Solemn Vows |
1970 1987 1987 1987 1987 |
09 |
Anthony Joseph Archer |
Birth |
1992 |
10 |
Arokia Raj R. |
Solemn Vows |
1989 |
11 |
Jesu Raja A. |
Birth |
1985 |
12 |
Pratap Reddy Salibindla Balthazar Pinto Bala Marneni Tony D’Souza Arokia Raj R. Arulsamy A. Thomas Joseph Bobby V.T. Johnny Anthony Charles Bernard Felix Gassam Athanasius Xaxa Paul Kallan Leos Ekka John Chrysostom Salim Joseph Francis Kaviyil Babu Jose Pamplany James N. Chinnappan M. Devaraj Amaldas Belevendran |
Entry Entry Entry Entry Entry Entry Entry Entry Entry Entry Entry Entry Entry Entry Entry Entry Entry Entry Entry Entry Entry |
1981 1981 1981 1981 1982 1982 1982 1982 1983 1984 1984 1985 1985 1985 1985 1985 1985 1985 1985 1985 1986 |
13 |
+ Anthony of Padua Samson A. Basen Friary Nanasera Friary New Church at Sion Bannur Friary |
Feast Birth Foundation Foundation Blessing Foundation |
1955 1982 1992 1995 1999 |
14 |
Francis Arokiasamy M. |
Birth |
1987 |
16 |
Adarsh Y. |
Birth |
1994 |
18 |
Michael Anand |
Ordination |
2005 |
19 |
Dayanand Dharma L. Bernard |
Birth Birth |
1950 1953 |
20 |
Tony Marshall + Alphaeus Swinkels |
Birth Home |
1978 1980 |
21 |
Jamesmon P.C. |
Birth |
1970 |
22 |
Arulsamy A. Arun Junes |
Birth Birth |
1961 1978 |
25 |
Thomas M.M. |
Birth |
1949 |
26 |
Niraj Kumar Tirkey |
Birth |
1993 |
27 |
Naveen George |
Birth |
1982 |
28 |
Samson Tommy T.J. Dominic C.J. Carlos Dias Manoj Xalxo |
Entry Entry Entry Entry Birth |
1980 1980 1980 1980 1982 |
30 |
Amaldas Belevendran + Leo Remedios |
Birth Home |
1967 1970 |