We all must have heard of a familiar quote which says: “There is no place like Home”
It is because of the love we receive from our loved ones, especially our parents, who will stand for us against all odds, even when the world rejects us.
What can equal a mother's love says the world and it is true and that is the very reason Jesus also gave us His Mother so that we could run to her in times of need to be loved, protected, nurtured and much more, etc.
Many Senior Priests/friars said that they don’t go home for a long vacation anymore and upon asking why? They said, “It no longer has that true love of mum and dad in them anymore, and they wished they were still alive”.
Now why am I talking about this love which holds us so dear? It is because we postulant brothers experienced one similar to that when we were invited to the Pasathotam at Dindigul for the inauguration of the Paasam Hospice, a place where the ones rejected by society, the ones who are looked down upon because they are infected by HIV-AIDS, are given dignity and sheltered, are loved and taken care of.
We all the fourteen of us postulants, who along with our postulant Master Fr. Arvind Kerketta OFM, started our journey, in response to the invite, on the 8th of November 2022 from our formation house in Madurai to Pasathotam, Dindigal, by local public transport. After 3 hours of journey, we reached Dindigal and were welcomed warmly and picked up by Fr. Peter Saleth OFM and Fr. Felix Vijay OFM who took us to Pasathotam and explained to us about that place. Later, we quickly settled in our designated stay rooms, changed our clothes, had lunch and got ready to work. We started working towards getting things clean and getting the place ready for the next day’s inauguration. It was a rainy day but nothing could stop us. We only had one thing in our minds: that it is a blessing to love someone more than to be loved, and we wanted the best for the ones for whom it was built for. The spirit of that place, Paasam, had won us over and we worked until late evening and satisfied, and we settled down for the night.
The next day was bright with all the guests and religious from various congregations joining us for the opening ceremony and Fr. Praveen D’Souza, Minister Provincial OFM graced it in the presence of all and we also were blessed by the presence of the 14 friars. We had the Holy Eucharistic Celebration at the new place at around 9:30 AM and in the Mass we learnt that it was a challenging journey to get this hospice from an idea to an actual one. Many friars, benefactors and people who worked for it were acknowledged and prayed for.
Our benefactors from Germany from the Asha Trust, i.e., Mr. Hans Schwarz and Mrs. Maris Woste were also present among us and were acknowledged and prayed for too.
Many friars i.e., Fr Arun Junes, Fr. Vijay Amrit Raj, Fr. Sagayadas, Fr Xavier Durairaj, Fr. Rajshekar Gopu, Fr. Felix Vijay, Fr. Peter Saleth, Fr. Arok Sundar, Fr. Eugene, Fr. Steven was all very instrumental in having this project completed and having that place stand true to its name.
We had the Minister of Co-operation of Tamil Nadu, Mr. I Periyasamy who inaugurated the place and, in his speech, he assured us full support and love, which was nothing less than tasting sweet honey as we found favour with man after God.
An inauguration and no cultural programme, that’s not possible. Well, our brothers, the local client kids and the local postulant sisters from the order of St Charles Borromeo later lit the place with happiness and performed some amazing cultural dances and skits. It all ended on a high note with hearts filled with joy and an assured future.
After all the hard work and an amazing day, tasty food was a must and so was it. Our own dear friars served us lovingly and we had a sumptuous meal. Now with a happy heart and a blessing tongue and wonderful memories, we returned to Madurai Friary, the postulancy house safely.
Date |
Name of the Friars |
Events |
Year |
01 |
Gabriel Mathias Carlos Dias |
Birth Ordination |
1950 1989 |
03 |
+ Sylvester McGoldrick |
Home |
1992 |
04 |
Vineet Kerketta |
Birth |
1995 |
05 |
+ Achilles Meersman Salim Joseph Nicolas Marak |
Home Ordination Birth |
1982 1994 1994 |
07 |
Rajasekhar Reddy Gopu Punitha Anthoniar Illam |
Birth Foundation |
1985 1992 |
08 |
John Chrysostom |
Birth |
1965 |
09 |
+ Prasad Cheely |
Ordination |
1998 |
10 |
Jugal Kishore Lakra |
Ordination |
2005 |
11 |
Paul Kallan |
Ordination |
1996 |
12 |
+ Liguory Mimpen |
Home |
2016 |
13 |
Francis Agnelo Rozario |
Ordination |
1997 |
14 |
Matthew Kootumkal Cajetan S. Lourenco Shalom Friary, Hyderabad Cajetan S. Lourenco + John Peter Bhaskar Reddy |
Birth Birth Foundation Ordination Home Ordination |
1963 1965 1975 1996 2005 2005 |
15 |
Ignatius Baa Joseph Raj M. |
Ordination Ordination |
2005 2007 |
16 |
Richard D’Silva Shanborlang Wartde Francis Kaviyil Babu Jose Pamplany |
Birth Birth Ordination Ordination |
1933 1989 1994 1994 |
17 |
Peter Saleth Nathan J. Ushar Kachhua Joy (George) Sebastian Jacob Tani |
Birth Birth Ordination Birth |
1978 1992 2010 1993 |
18 |
St.Francis Friary, Kochi Prasad Papabathuni Joy K.D. |
Erection Ordination Ordination |
1951 1998 1998 |
19 |
Parish at Chippilithode Vilas Baptist Correia Prashanth Wilson Fernandes |
Erection Ordination Ordination |
1997 2008 2012 |
20 |
Johnson M.V. Tojy M. Regi Matthew Ajit Kumar Dung Dung Tony Marshall Nelson Toppo |
Ordination Ordination Ordination Ordination Ordination Birth |
1999 2004 2006 2008 2009 1992 |
21 |
Abraham Vadana Davis Kallookaran Alphonse Moras Gerald Lobo Simon Pinto Paul K.L. + Angelo James Anthony New Church at Salbari |
Entry Entry Entry Entry Entry Entry Home Blessing |
1972 1972 1972 1972 1972 1972 2002 2013 |
22 |
+ Owen McLaughlin |
Home |
1974 |
23 |
Anthony Roobandass A. Singarayar A. Tom John Thomas A. |
Birth Ordination Ordination Ordination |
1978 1997 2002 2003 |
24 |
Johnny Anthony Benjamin Jojo John Sekar |
Birth Ordination Ordination |
1961 2005 2010 |
25 |
Pratap Reddy Salibindla Thomas Joseph Johnny Anthony Sandesh Manuel Varghese Lakra |
Ordination Ordination Ordination Ordination Ordination |
1991 1992 1992 2009 2010 |
26 |
Thaddeus Baxla Pradeep Kalliath |
Birth Ordination |
1968 2007 |
27 |
+ Paul Fernandes |
Home |
2004 |
29 |
Arok Sundar Sebastian Dharma L. Bernard Arun Prakash Lourdu Augustine Balaswamy Gundiga Peter Saleth Nathan J. Vijay Minj |
Entry Entry Birth Ordination Ordination Ordination Ordination |
1973 1973 1974 2006 2008 2012 2012 |
30 |
Parish at Nanasera Anthony Alex Martis Vijay Amirtharaj A. Nesavanam,Chennai New Church at Reddypalem |
Erection Ordination Ordination Blessing Blessing |
1995 2008 2008 2008 2013 |